M.I.N.E.N.O.T.Y.O.U.R.S.!.!

to my friends who are....

2011-09-28T22:31:00.000-07:00

To My Friends Who Are…MARRIED
Love is not about “it’s your fault”,
but “I’m sorry”, not “where are you’
but “I’m right here”, not “how could
you” but “I understand”, not “I wish
you were”, but “I’m thankful you are.”
To My Friends Who Are…ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is
not the years spent together but how
good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are…NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn’t about becoming somebody
else’s “perfect person.” It’s about
finding someone who helps you become
the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are…HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want
and cut deep as you allow them to go.
The challenge is not how to survive
heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are…NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don’t
stumble, be consistent but not too
persistent, share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand, and
get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are…SEARCHING
True love cannot be found where it
does not truly exist, nor can it be
hidden where it truly does. Love is
magic. The more we hide it, the more
it shows; the more you suppress it,
the more it grows.
*To My Friends Who
Are…PLAYBOY /GIRL TYPE
*Never say I love if you don’t care.
Never talk about feelings if they
aren’t there. Never touch a life if
you mean to break a heart. Never look
in the eye when what you do is lie.
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a
girl is to let her fall in love when
he doesn’t intend to catch her fall.
To My Friends Who Are…POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one
you love happy with someone else but
it’s more painful to know that the one
you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are…AFRAID TO
CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with
someone. It hurts even more when
someone breaks up with you. But love
hurts the most when the person you
love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are…STILL HOLDING
ON
A sad thing about life is that when
you meet someone who means a lot to
you, only to find out in the end that
it was never bound to be and we just
have to let go.
To My Friends Who Are…SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you
chase it, the more it eludes you. But
if you just let it fly, it would come
to you when you least expect it. Love
can make you happy but often times it
hurts, but love’s only special when
you give it to someone who is worth
it. So take your time and choose the
best!

Three things never return:
the past, the neglected opportunity,
and the spoken word

sharing is caring~ :p

2011-09-21T08:18:00.000-07:00

SEMASA BERCINTA :
1. Saat cinta itu bertaut mmg mengasyikkan.. tp jgn leka dan terbuai dengan perasaan itu..kerna bila kecewa parah jadinya..simpan sedikit untuk meniti hari-hari yg hambar..agar lukanya tidak terlampau dalam.

2. Cintailah sesuatu itu sekadar saja, berkemungkinan ia akan menjadi kebencianmu pada suatu ketika, bencilah yang engkau benci itu sekadar saja, berkemungkinan ia akan menjadi kecintaanmu pada satu ketika.

SEBELUM BERPISAH :
1. Jika mengail ikan, janganlah dilepaskan ikan tersebut kerana sepanjang hidupnya akan merana kerana bisa kail anda.

2. Mencintai orang yang tidak cintai kita itu sia-sia, mensia-siakan orang yang mencintai kita adalah bahaya

SELEPAS BERPISAH
1. Tuhan kadang-kadang jauhkan seseorang dri hidup kita atas sebab untuk melindungi kita..Oleh itu, berhentilah mengejarnya..Mungkin ada yang lebih baik yang telah diciptakan untuk kita.

2. ...dgn memaafkan dan melupakan kisah silam itu, aku dapat mengecapi kebahagiaan yg selama ini aku lari darinya...

* Pesan pada DIRI.. Jangan tersalah memberi HATI pada insan yang tak sudi.. Pada insan yang tak mengerti.. Kerana,sekali kau memberi, selamanya dia di HATI.. Kerana,sekali kau dilukai, sampai bila2 tetap kau ingati..Pesan lagi pada diri, hati2lah dalam memberi HATI sebab ia hanya untuk insan yang tahu menghargai betapa tingginya nilai sekeping HATI.

tudung :)

2011-07-01T02:35:00.000-07:00

hehehe !

belajar pakai tudung~

2011-07-01T01:31:00.000-07:00

so, alright..

this is boringg~

i mean this blog was boring!

i haven't updates my blog since few months

and now,

that's it..

i love fridayy!

why?

alright..

todayy ive heard good news bout our cas which has been stolen in 20th April 2011,

where f**king b****it thief is alreadyy jailed !

that's mean we still own an opportunity to get the car back in our garage !

that's the first one..

the second thing that coloured my day today is about my application to pursuing my studyy in UiTM..

i got my offer todayy !!

2011651648 that's the lucky number !!

got BASc - Bach. in Admin Science in KK campus~

the last one is just now im done calling admin from UiTM Shah Alam asking bout out convocation's date and

he said it will be somewhere in Nov 2011 ~

that's all :)

im in a good state of feeling now~

syurkan ya ALLAH <3 <3 <3

i grateful for everything You've given me !

Allah the Mighty

diploma

2011-05-28T02:16:00.001-07:00

holiday is officially start !
im free !
thanks ya ALLAH for everything You've gave me..
im grateful..
im passed my diploma now and im free !
:)

partly done!

2011-04-25T08:42:00.000-07:00

huh!! finally, im FREE !

no need to stay up late, wake up early etc!!

so today i declared myself free (not absolutely free since examination result is not release yet!)

btw, today im having a very tiring day since i had one paper yesterday (LAW379- Business LAW) and in hours ago im having two papers (PAD370 - Financial Administration and PAD380 -Develop Administration) awesome!!

two papers in one day where one day before also having LAW paper!

it's sucks seriously!

btw, good to hear that ive done my part for this sem!!

and something so special is today MIGHT be my last day as diploma student!

:)))

that's all~

cheers!

-with love & peace-

DIPAC~

2011-04-02T23:47:00.000-07:00

yes!

tonight we will be having DIPAC night!

on WARISAN theme..

sounds good!

nothing much to writes here since i was so busy..

examination is just around a corner and it may be the last exam i would sit as a DIPAC ..

i love DIPAC..

about tonight's dinner i will upload my pictures later..

so here's my exam timetable;

20th April, 0900-1200 - PAD380

24th April, 0900-1200 - LAW379

25th April, 0900-1200 - PAD390 , 0200-0500 - PAD370

wish me luck ya guys!!

#my weekend!

2011-03-19T22:28:00.000-07:00

at LAW's class :)

my spend my saturday in Tanjung Aru First Beach and then at 7pm we went to Perdana Park!

awesome!

there's so many people there..

here's some pics of us!!

oh ya, there is only four of us :)

JANGAN MENCARI TERLALU SEMPURNA by (DR.FADILAH KAMSAH)

2011-03-15T05:22:00.000-07:00

Jika kamu memancing ikan.... Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail, hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu.... Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja.... Karena ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup.

Begitulah juga ......... Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang... Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya.... Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja.... Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu....

Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh.... cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu.... Apabila sekali ia retak.... tentu sukar untuk kamu menampalnya semula.... Akhirnya ia dibuang.... Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi....

Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya.... Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa.... Anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya.... akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya. Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya....

Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi... yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat. Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain.. Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan. Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya. Kamu akan menyesal.

Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan..... yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU... MENGASIHIMU... Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain. Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan. Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang ain Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL....

-love live-

::with all love and peace::

FRIENDS

2011-03-14T01:54:00.000-07:00

Friendship is a rare and precious commodity.

If you have a friend, so you are the luckiest person in the world. Everyone has at least one best friend whom they can count on for almost any and everything. A best friend is not just a shoulder to cry on but also a source of joy.

mine is who??

so, today lets talk about FRIENDSHIP!!

i knows that everyone MUST have at least one best friend

so do i~

i had many

not only one!!

btw, ive just finished my class today

kinda tired after having 8-10, 10-12, 2-4 classes

by reading these quotation, i may not feel fucking tired!

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; don't walk behind me, I may not lead; walk beside me, and just be my friend.
Albert Camus

"Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say.”
Charllotte Donnelly

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
Anais Nin

Best friends may forget your birthday but they sure as hell will make every day spent with them like your birthday.
Savio DSilva

and the last one is most of my favorite,

“Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.”
Kahlil Gibran

TESTS, QUIZZES, PRESENTATION AND ASSIGNMENT

2011-03-13T07:19:00.000-07:00

today, is the end of week 10..

now is my 10th week of lecture for this sem~

kinda busy with all above stuffs :(

since past three weeks ago we have been 'visited' with so many tests and quizzes..

and i still remember the last test that i have taken is LAW309 which is study case

awesome!

luckily there is no more tests and quizzes waiting for next week..

huh, please gimme some spaces!

but in fact, we are never free!

dushhh!

got many assignments, presentations to do!

tomorrow will be my fourth presentation after finished with my environment, social and security presentations!

two more to go..tomorrow will be presenting on economy and my last presentation is on week 13 which is on political issue~

ouya, forgot to mention that those presentations is for Current Affairs in ASEAN (PAD380)

i still got few presentations for other subjects and Financial Administration (PAD370) is one of them.

and my title of assignment for that subject is Public Accountability!

btw, good luck to me and all of you!!

-love life-

#1 ME!

2011-03-09T07:19:00.000-08:00

it's me!

i love music~

I NEED ALLAH S.W.T IN MY LIFE

2011-03-09T07:12:00.000-08:00

As Muslims, we should never fabricate hadith. If we don't know something about the Prophet (S.A.W) when asked, we should stay quiet or be honest about not knowing. The Prophet (S.A.W) warned anyone from telling a lie against him as Anas narrated, "Whoever tells a lie against me intentionally, then (surely) let him occupy his seat in Hell-fire"

P/S;

jangan jadi bodoh sombong.. suda x taww ckp jalaa x taww..

btw, no one is perfect.. just be honest if you are not certain about something.. it is normal.. no one knows everything in this world, thus we need to learn a lot.. PEACE and LOVE !

STORY OF LIFE

2011-03-09T07:05:00.000-08:00

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, your neighbor, your coworker, a long lost friend, or a complete stranger. When you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved,straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.

Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.

Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

Most importantly if you Love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.

Learn a lesson in life each day that you live. That's the story of Life.

IN RELATIONSHIP, MARRIED OR NOT.. YOU GOTTA READ THIS!

2011-03-09T06:29:00.000-08:00

how we wish we'll be appreciated this way!

in relationship or in marriage, we should and must appreciate everything that we had. cuz time will never wait for us. it will be never stopped. none can stop it but all we can do is seize our own day. appreciate everything that we had before it is too late.. with all love~ peace! :)

MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

W.E.A.R.E.U.S

2011-02-08T00:31:00.000-08:00

me, cousin (intan) and my sis (lynna)

ohh!

kehidupan agak sibuk minggu ni..

banyak benda mau buat..

upload gambar ni untuk hilangkan habuk yang berkurun di blog saya ni!

february

2011-02-06T00:22:00.000-08:00

this my first post in February 2011!

nothing to share..

im so busy with assignment! :(

research and research! huhu

just wanna say hi to February and please be nice :p

P/s : thank guys yang follow me! :p

EMPTY

2011-01-19T22:36:00.000-08:00

hiii my new blog~!

i just come back from DiPaC meeting just now..

lil tired luckily there is no more class for today..

how are you my new blog?

you're empty!

# oh no!!

2011-01-19T06:01:00.000-08:00

i dont know what to do with my old blog

i forgot my password..

not only that hell blog, but my email too

how sad!

btw, it's my first meeting with my new blog!

hai new blog :)